You might not be in love

Physical attraction is important but getting into a relationship because of just that is crazy.

Physical features are not definite so basing the decision of spending the rest of your life with someone off the fact that they look good is delusional.

Sadly, that’s the case with many relationships today. You get into the relationship because they have what you want physically or maybe simply because you look good together.

But hey, what happens if that 6ft loses his legs or when that slim thick has your child and puts on some weight or that girl with the fatty decides to go on a diet and loses that ass.

You begin to see how incompatible you both are because physical attraction is off the table.

So please for the sake of your peace of mind and so we can rest from the breakfast at the end of your monthly dump on our timelines, try to check your compatibility asides physical features.

You putting physical attraction over everything else, just makes you overlook a lot of things and make excuses for red flags that would be a waste of time in the end.

What happens if you just have a bit of patience and start vetoing who get to have access to you and your time not just because they look good? Nothing except you not being part of the bandwagon calling your opposite gender scum or giving reasons why you should fear them.

I promise, it’s always something better out there for you.